Be color brave, not color blind: Mellody Hobson at TED2014

I am 100% happy to black and I wouldn’t have it any other way but I don’t want you to treat me like I’m black… I’d prefer that you treat me like I’m human. Get to know my character before you assume that you know me because of the color of my skin.

Contrary to popular belief, we all can’t dance (I honestly had no interest until I realized it was “a thing” at my middle school dance {I even remember my cousin trying to teach me that one time lol] I don’t even care anymore. I do what I need to do, when I need to do it)

Don’t be color blind It’s cool for you to notice the color of my skin but get to know me. Ask Questions. We do have differences; explore them.

Be color brave.

That’s it, That’s all 😉

TED Blog

Mellody Hobson. Photo: James Duncan Davidson Mellody Hobson. Photo: James Duncan Davidson

In 2006 Harold Ford called his friend Mellody Hobson, saying that he was running for US Senate in Tennessee, and he need some national press. Hobson, an investor, opens her talk with this story. She called a friend at a major media organization who organized a lunch. Hobson and Ford arrived at the reception, said they were there for the lunch, and were taken to a back room. Then they were asked, “Where are your uniforms?” At that point her friend rushed in, speechless. Hobson said, “Don’t you think we need more than one black person in the US Senate?”

Hobson says that she and Ford still laugh about that incident, but also that “deep deep down inside, I wasn’t surprised.” Her mother was ruthlessly realistic, and had prepared her. For example, after a birthday party where she was the only black person, her mother…

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Wake Up Everybody

Violence as a way of achieving racial justice is both impractical and immoral. It is impractical because it is a descending spiral ending in destruction for all. The old law of an eye for an eye leaves everybody blind. It is immoral because it seeks to humiliate the opponent rather than win his understanding; it seeks to annihilate rather than to convert. Violence is immoral because it thrives on hatred rather than love. It destroys community and makes brotherhood impossible. It leaves society in monologue rather than dialogue. Violence ends by defeating itself. It creates bitterness in the survivors and brutality in the destroyers.”
-Martin Luther King, Jr.


We are responsible for our actions…

“Nuff Said